Recently I've been working this whole 'Let Go & Let God!' concept i.e. whilst keeping full tawakul in Allah and working hard, handing it all over to Him (swt) and asking Him (swt) to do the best and being ready and prepared to accept whatever is sent my way. I have to say i'm in one of my very calm and relaxed modes and allowing whatever to happen, happen. I'm loving it! "Indeed, I have turned my face toward He who created the heavens and the earth, inclining toward truth, and I am not of those who associate others with Allah." {Qur'an; 6:79} You may be hurting right now and it's real painful and no one gets you. I know how that feels as I'm one of those who always had a challenge expressing my feelings - even to friends. Oh and then sometimes you get laughed at or ignored - like your issue ain't no big deal. But it is a big deal to you - I know! And the thing is that social media has become so accessible that we turn to it for minute details and instant comfort. But we know this instant 'comfort' doesn't last. So, what now? You're still hurting and still want answers right? Listen, if you're facing some challenges right now and just want an answer or an opening to something new or just some peace then i say do what i do; 'Let Go & Let God' - for this moment is all we have and this moment could be our last - as when all is said and done, to Him we belong and to Him is our return! 'Those to whom hypocrites said, "Indeed, the people have gathered against you, so fear them." But it [merely] increased them in faith, and they said, "Sufficient for us is Allah , and [He is] the best Disposer of affairs."' {Qur'an; 3:173} I hope this helps and let me know in the comments below what resonated with you the most and how you'll be moving forward with this message now :) You know i'm here to help you insha'Allah. I created this audio program just for you. Masha'Allah many have invested in it and have started to make those positive changes in their life so they can live upon the deen and prepare for their best akhirah now insha'Allah. Grab your audio program 'How to get Instant Soul Therapy & Heart Relief' right here. "And when My servants ask you, [O Muhammad], concerning Me - indeed I am near. I respond to the invocation of the supplicant when he calls upon Me. So let them respond to Me [by obedience] and believe in Me that they may be [rightly] guided." partial {Qur'an 2; 186} Love, duas and light Nadia - Your Spiritual, Creative and Personal Peak Performance Mentor Coach Ps: If there is one piece of advice which i can give you after studying and practicing personal and spiritual peak performance for the last 20 years then it is this; 'You will always be a daily work in progress and each step will take you closer to your ultimate final destination. Keep the end in mind always!' Take the first step and invest in yourself and grab the audio program; 'How to get Instant Soul Therapy & Heart Relief!' *(Image found on Google and copyright to some Diamond Soul who i have never met - thank you for these words, they really helped. God Bless You!)
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Giving ourselves permission to just 'BE' seems alien to most people. In my workshops and coaching this is one of the first concepts i cover and many have appreciated exploring this area and working through it. They all get instant transformations walhamdulilah. Why do we forget about this concept? Because we get caught up in our day to day and don't stop to breathe and take in the silence. And because of this we have constant soul and heart ache and we don't understand what has gone loopy for us. When faced with such challenges we may hit social media to get some therapy or reassurance. Wrong place! All we need to do is learn to silence our mind. Let go of everything and anything that doesn't serve our soul and our true purpose. Eternal happiness comes from living our souls purpose - worshipping God. So, with this in mind, live your awesome life now, make those positive changes and prepare for your best afterlife. Let go and let God. Call on God for He (swt) is listening to your call. "And when My servants ask you, [O Muhammad], concerning Me - indeed I am near. I respond to the invocation of the supplicant when he calls upon Me. So let them respond to Me [by obedience] and believe in Me that they may be [rightly] guided." partial Qur'an 2; 186 Turn inwards and reconnect with your soul and talk to your Creator - this will help your soul to heal. But many of you reading this won't take it on board! Why? Because we are just addicted to drama and drama gives us attention and comfort! We are fooling no one except ourselves here. Anas (radhiallahu anhu) said that he heard the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alaihi wa-sallam) say: “Allah the Exalted said: “O son of Adam! As long as you invoke Me and plead to Me, I will forgive you whatever you have committed, and I will not make much of it. O son of Adam! If your evil deeds reach the borders of the sky, and then you ask Me for forgiveness, I will forgive you. O son of Adam! If you bring forth the earth full of errors, then you meet Me while you do not associate anything (or anyone) with Me, I will bring forth for you its full of forgiveness.” [At-Tirmidhee (Shaikh Albanee rendered it as Hasan)] If there is one piece of advice which i can give you after studying and practicing personal and spiritual peak performance for the last 20 years then it is this; 'You will always be a daily work in progress and each step will take you closer to your ultimate final destination. Keep the end in mind always!' Quit the drama - it is not serving your ultimate soul purpose! Let me help you help your soul to heal. Click here now to get instant soul therapy and heart relief Leave me your thoughts in the comments below and do {SHARE the KHAIR} :) How do you react when you face a challenge? Do you look for solutions or do you quit? 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(Just a quick one - the training is worth £197 but i'm gifting it to you for absolutely FREE and and the end of the Masterclass i have more gifts for you AND an opportunity for you to join the Ramadan-Spiritual-Fix-Club where i will be personally mentoring and coaching you through the last half of Ramadan insha'Allah). So, hurry and watch the vid and if you want to secure your seat first then CLICK HERE TO REGISTER RIGHT NOW! Did you know that when we first meet someone we scan the information - verbal or non-verbal and filter them which helps us decide whether we like them or not? Did you know that you did the same with me when you first discovered me too?? Interesting! Each of us has our very own 'Map of the World' and we filter information to fit our world. Maybe it is for comfort - maybe we don't want to expand our horizons??? Watch this video now which will help you understand this concept further and why people do what they do! Comment below and let me know what you just learnt :) Are you going through some challenges in your life right now? Feel like there's no immediate solution?? Feeling overwhelmed and confused??? Well i have some good news for you dearest diamond soul. For each of your challenges (whatever area of your life) there are at least two solutions! What? Yes - two solutions! You have to stay in the challenge long enough to get those two solutions. Watch this video now for an instant life transforming session and then let me know your thoughts in the comments below and remember to share the khair - as there are diamond souls who need this video right now and you could be the answer to their prayers! :) Last Thursday my cousin brother was taken into hospital in an emergency as he threw up blood. They put him on the machines straight away to ease the pain and so they can do scans. On Friday at 5pm we got a phone call from his elder brother that he only has a few hours left. We rushed to the hospital in a taxi and guess what nasheed was playing? 'Oh traveler you are here for a few years and the grave is your ultimate destination'. I was shaking all the way from home to the hospital. I had always heard about ICU but on Friday i experienced it for real. I don't think i want to experience it again. Well, not for a long while anyway! We walked through the first double doors - me, my mum and dad and my nephew - and everyone was there. My aunties, uncles, nieces, nephews, my cousins wife and kids - even extended family. I hugged my niece and she said; 'Chacha (uncle) is leaving us. His 11 year old son was sitting next to her...quiet. Walked through the second double doors and saw another family in another room leaving, crying. Walked through the third double doors and the room was packed! All i could hear was Surah Yaseen being recited loudly by my uncles and few other relatives reciting the kalima loudly. I slowly walked forward....and there he was...on the bed....on the machines... I grew up at my aunties house (khala) as a kid and my cousin brothers used to take me over. I grew up as their little baby sister. I was there at ICU for 7 hours and said my goodbyes. I came home and tossed and turned all night. At 7am my mum told me that he returned to Allah. His heart went down and down and they switched the machines off and at 4am the Angel of Death took him. Saturday was his Janazah and we sent him off. He had nour shining from his face and he was smiling. Over 100 people attended the burial and every single person praised his character and personality and continues to praise him. Let my brothers death be a reminder for us all - because reminders benefit the believers and as humans we need constant reminders - we easily forget and get caught up in this life. - He had been ill for 3 years and he left this world within 48 hours. - He was scheduled for an appointment in London in 6 weeks for treatment yet his appointment with Allah came before that. - He was the youngest of his brothers and his elderly mum is poorly. Yet his time came. How many times have we heard of instant deaths when someone was absolutely fine and the next minute they're gone? This teaches us that this life is not a guarantee for 100+ years. We don't take anything with us except our deeds. We don't even have to have an illness and our time could be up. So let's ask ourselves; * Am I praying all my 5 compulsory prayers on time? * Am I spending time with the Qur'an daily? * Am I doing dhikr and tasbee and keeping my tongue moist with the remembrance of Allah? * Am I actively seeking knowledge and implementing it in my life? * Am I learning about the rules and rites of life and death and everything in between? Because the reality is that you and I don't know about all the rites and rules! The reality is that we're living in ignorance and even in sin. Even when we find out the rules and rites we actively choose to ignore it. We listen to laws by man yet ignore those by Allah. We don't actively seek to know so live in ignorance and sin. We have no one to blame! No western illuminati masonicy conspiracy cult. Nope! You and I are to blame! Right now we seek Allah's forgiveness from our ignorance. Right now we decide to seek knowledge, implement it and teach it. Right now we prepare for our meeting with the Angel of Death. Right now is when we decide to live on purpose with purpose. If you've read this then now you're not in ignorance any more. Now you decide which path to take. Let's take the path which leads to Allah. My cousin Ramzan was in his early 40's and leaves behind his elderly, poorly mum, brothers, nieces and nephews. He also leaves behind a wife who is 35 years old and 5 children age 14, 11, 7, 6 and 5. Please keep them in your duas as they are the ones whose life has changed forever.... A Personal Reflection ...It's a shame really as i thought we were really close friends and our souls were connected - really understood from the depths - and even though i deleted the numbers and messages, i had to go through my emotions to get here today. Can't believe i read this message today. But my friend is no longer who my friend used to be. And yes i have tried to contact and email many times. No response. It's ok now. I'm ready to heal and move forward. I'm extremely sensitive by nature and i only have a very few close ones - and my friends are my family - so that's why it hurts so much. So even though people say get over it - i'll deal with my emotions and then i'll be ready to heal now. Now I'm ready! Hope this helps you on your friendship journeys too... What lessons do you learn from this for your own life? Comment below and let me know insha'Allah! :) A personal reflection... They say that it has to get worse to get better. They were right! March 2010 - April 2014 I still get flashbacks! I go into deep reflection mode and get emotional and teary! I go quiet... I'm teary writing this... Even back then walhamdulilah I still got to do a two week KSC Easter Playscheme through the drama and went London for an evening workshop. Only through God's will and Mercy did I make it through those two weeks in April. God is Great! April 2010 - I thought it was the beginning of 'The End'. April 2014 - Am I still alive? Wow, subhan'Allah - I still pinch me to make sure it's real. God is Great! Everything is not what it always seems - especially on social media. Don't be fooled by my 'khaapiness' on display. There's a reason why I'm still alive and there's a reason why you are alive and reading this. There's a reason why I do the personal and spiritual development work I do today. Everyone is on a journey. This journey is back to God. This moment is all we have. I promised that if I got better through my illness I would make each my moments count. It's not funny being 'alive' and telling your family 'I might die and we need to prepare now' and trying to be ok with it all. It's not funny sitting at hospital alone not taking your family with you so they won't be upset and getting those biopsies and stuff. The Nurse: 'You're a brave girl!' Me in my head: 'It hurts lady - it hurts! I just don't wana show you my tears!' And yes I cried when I left that hospital! It's not funny trying to fake smile at your nieces during the playscheme and lying to them; 'Don't worry - I'm ok - everything is ok!' And they know everything is not ok. It's not funny seeing your Mama trying to be ok as she might lose her youngest and being brave. Everyone is on a journey. I know you have your story too. It's ok if no one gets you - I get that all the time! I'm misunderstood most the times! Remember though Allah has put you here for a reason. Be ok with that and do what you gotta do - even if no one gets you. Coz we're all on a journey and it's all gona end soon. Make the most of yours - make your moments count - as this moment is all we have... I know I don't share this with y'all - but I am today - just so you get a glimpse into my world and maybe it gives you some soul therapy too. Nadia x |
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