What do you give power to in your life?
The dominant force in your life dictates how your life is shaping out - whether that be positive or negative.
The best way to find out what your dominant force is to grab your notebook or journal and have a reflection moment.
What is your (current) thought pattern?
What thoughts do you entertain constantly?
What are they focused on specifically?
What feelings arise because of these thoughts?
What actions do you take or not take because of your thought patterns and then the feelings that follow?
Now you have a map to work from.
Now you can see what the dominant force is and whether it's serving you or hindering your progress.
Now you know where you need to make those changes - and changes you can make now.
In fact, here's a tip - surrender your will to God's will and return the power to Him (swt) and see how He creates miracles in your life - for His is the Power of All.
I hope this post helps.
Nadia Leona Yunis