If your soul is not growing then it's dying!

Are YOU living or dying?

Are you making each moment count and actively seeking solutions to your challenges and working hard in your worship, studies, work, relationship, life, business?

Are you constantly learning and applying?

Are you making a difference to the lives of others and becoming an asset to humanity which you are meant to be now?

On the Day of Judgment we will stand alone in front of God - all those whom we love and those who we go crazy over will be standing alone too!

Each of us will be accounting for our own life - what we did with it and how we spent our time.

We think we have all the time in the world - but do we really?

How many do we know were here with us a year ago and now they're gone!

Take a moment and picture yourself now on the Day of Judgment standing in front of God alone with your book of deeds and ready to account...

He (God) will say, “How many years did you stay on the earth?”  They will say: “We stayed a day or part of a day....”  [Quran; 23:112-113]

And what is our purpose here?

Why are we suffering so much?

Why are we hurting?

Why are we so negative?

Why do we live in drama and create drama?

When someone helps us why do we reject it?

This victim mentality does not serve us!

 We are created for a reason - we must excel and grow!

"Did you then think that We had created you in jest (without any purpose), and that you would not be returned to Us (in the Hereafter)? So, God is exalted, the True King. None has the right to be worshiped but Him...[Qur'an; 23:115-116]

We will all return to God!

THIS is our reality which the Qur'an teaches us over and over.

This is what our Prophet was teaching us!

Yet - we get caught up in our head and the stories we tell ourselves over and over - (usually these stories don't exit - we make them up) and then we make ourselves suffer and then years and years go by and then we wake up and realise we don't have the energy we used to - we don't have that strength - we are not youthful - we have more responsibilities!

We weren't created to just work and pay the bills!

Yes, that is part of life but NO that is NOT life itself!

Life is much more - it has tests and trials to teach us, guide us and purify us.

God has blessed us - in fact gifted us - with so many skills, talents and abilities that most of us are not even using.

Is that YOU?

Are YOU afraid what 'others' will think of you if you step up and shine your light?

I did and guess what...i still do!

It's not easy putting ourselves out there to be judged and criticized - yet we must stand up for what we believe - we must make our voice heard - we must start living right now.

Are YOU ready to live now?

YOU have so much potential in you right now which is lying dormant...because of your fear!

I spent years fearing too...i still get into my own head at times...but the more i put myself out there through my work the more prayers i get from everyone for showing up and shining my light because they needed to hear and read what i said because in that moment it was what they needed to get back on track on living a life of purpose.

God has blessed you - and you reading this need to be grateful for all His gifts to you and declare that from this moment on now you are going to live the life you were created to live.

God don't create no junk - He only creates awesome diamond souls like YOU!

I hope this helped now! :) 

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Love, duas and light!

​Nadia, your Personal Peak Performance & Mindset Transformation Mentor-Coach-Consultant

"Allah (God) is the Light of the heavens and the earth. The example of His light is like a niche within which is a lamp, the lamp is within glass, the glass as if it were a pearly [white] star lit from [the oil of] a blessed olive tree, neither of the east nor of the west, whose oil would almost glow even if untouched by fire. Light upon light. Allah (God) guides to His light whom He wills. And Allah (God) presents examples for the people, and Allah (God) is Knowing of all things." {Qur'an; 24:35}

I'm on a spiritual detox since the last few weeks - ridding myself of darkness and filling my soul with light.

It's very exhausting and tiring though - especially physically. 

It has to get worse to get better. 

I'm on the worse part however I believe and it will get better insha'Allah. 

May Allah (God) protect us all from the evil of evil! 

So, why am I sharing this with you today?

I'm sharing with you so you too believe and have hope - because the thing is life still continues on and through it all we still have to be present for our loved ones, our clients, our business, our studies, our work/job etc. 

And through it all i'm continuing too as i have clients to serve and family to be present for. 

So, keep the faith, do what you have to to heal and still stay focused on your dream and your vision, believe in it no matter how tough and rough the road gets and work hard and smart to achieve it!

And i'm sharing with you my favourite prayer for light which i love so much and recite all the time!

On the coming of dawn the The Messenger of God (may peace and blessings be upon him) used to say in his prayers:

"O Allah (God), place light in my heart, and on my tongue light, and in my ears light and in my sight light, and above me light, and below me light, and to my right light, and to my left light, and before me light and behind me light. Place in my soul light. Magnify for me light, and amplify for me light. Make for me light, and make me light. O Allah (God), grant me light, and place light in my nerves, and in my body light and in my blood light and in my hair light and in my skin light."
[Hadith Bukhari and Muslim]

I hope this post helps.

Leave me your thoughts below!

Nadia :)

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So, we all have our strengths and weaknesses and my weakness is that I can sometimes get caught up in my own head with my own cute lil story.

I've had 4 decades of mindset challenges where alhamdulilah I have achieved a lot yet I can easily sabotage it with my negative thinking (usually happens when it's lady time and only a lady will understand that one!).

This self-sabotaging can easily mess me up in all areas of my life that I've worked so hard to achieve and most of my negative thinking isn't real anyway at all - it's comfort zone comfort!

For the last two years I've really worked even harder on this and have had a lot of spiritual awakenings as of it too - and accepting who I am even more (highly intuitive soul with psychic abilities for instance - there i came out and said it!).

So, I'm challenging myself - and if you know me by now then you know I really do challenge myself big time - to drop all negative thinking from my system and to re-write my subconscious for goodness and positivity insha'Allah.

This doesn't mean that incidents won't happen - they will - and alhamdulilah I'm blessed to deal with them strongly - but then the negative thought pattern kicks in - i 'suffer' from delayed reactions which means i'm brave in the moment for myself and my loved ones then i run away and cry under the covers where only God can see and hear my tears.

I've been working harder on my mindset since November last year and now I have set myself this challenge and so far alhamdulilah.

Really, I don't have anything to be ungrateful for (and neither do you) and if I'm really going to help all those who need my help and run a successful biz and have a successful life upon then deen then bismillah and let's do this!

You in? I know it's a challenge and we need a lot of self-discipline but I know with God's mercy and help we can do it now!

"Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves." Partial {Qur'an; 13:11}

It's time to get out of our own head and get out of our way and shine our light to become an asset to our Ummah and humanity.

“Verily, Allah has prescribed excellence in all things." Partial; Hadith Muslim

Nadia - Your Spiritual, Creative & Personal Peak Performance Mentor Coach

How often do we want to escape our day to day and go on holidays for a break and when we come back we say; 'Oh i need another holiday!'

I hear this all too often from busy professionals who want to escape their 'reality' then they come back and need another holiday and go back to work all tired and moody again.

So, what were they escaping from in the first place?

What you run away from will chase you!

What you resist persists.

Now this doesn't mean i'm against holiday making - i just don't understand the mentality of some who are blessed to take a break and see some beautiful places in the world yet they are still ungrateful and moody to go back to work.

If you don't like your work then why are you still there? Who is forcing you? 

You have freedom of choice you know to make better decisions for your life - for your duniya and akhirah.

Oh, you have bills to pay?

We all do - and so do i!

There are many people who go day in day out without food yet many of us, especially in the west, are ungrateful for all that we have subhan'Allah!

And besides the necessities who said we need 20 phone lines or the newest flat screen tv or technological gadget?

Of course you can afford it, alhamdulilah for that, and of course you can gift yourself but i think we need to stop for a second and really search within now.

Instead of looking for an escape to go on holidays and then still be dissatisfied when we come back how about we stop for a moment and travel within and really get to know what's happening beneath the surface because if we leave it be it will come back to bite us and bite us real bad!

It will eventually catch up and we'll have a break down.

Get to know your emotions and why you do what you do. 

Give your soul a chance to heal now.

You can't move on and live in your present and prepare for your awesome future if you keep looking back. 

Your past is exactly just that - past. 

There is a lesson in it for you to learn - now's the time to learn it and get moving on. 

You owe it to yourself. 

How long will you continue with those painful memories? 

What purpose do they really serve? 

You know you're worth more than your current reality! 

You're simply one thought away from letting go and releasing yourself from those shackles. 

If the Angel of Death came to you now is this how you want to return to God? 

Hasn't God given you life? 

Hasn't He given you the ability to make things happen for you? 

Stop torturing yourself right now and get living the life you want. 

Start by clearing the junk in your head and filling it with goodness. 

You know if you keep eating junk food you're gonna fall ill right? 

Toxic thoughts do just that - make you junk and God didn't create you no junk He created you awesome. 

Begin now and travel within.

Make a promise to get rid of those negative habits and behaviour, start to create some positive changes now and then you'll enjoy your holiday making break properly AND you'll always be on an emaan-high too! :)

"To know yourself as the Being underneath the thinker, the stillness underneath the mental noise, the love and joy underneath the pain, is freedom, salvation, enlightenment." Eckhart Tolle

...YOU are NOT a mistake! 

God created you for a reason - for a purpose. 

Each moment is teaching you a lesson and this lesson is shaping up the human you are meant to be - the human you are being right now. 

The only thing is how you perceive it and how you react. 

This will determine your path in life and what you achieve. 

I know It hurts deep and it's confusing - especially when it happens over and over again and you just don't get it and you're like why me?! 

God will give you the same lesson over and over until you are ready to learn the lesson and move on. 

You give meaning to whatever is happening in your life right now but God only gives us what we can handle. 

Even a prick of a thorn is a purification but for some it shatters them completely - it all depends on how YOU want to perceive it now. 

It all depends on how you control your thoughts and we can control our thoughts - don't let them control you. 

Your unique purpose is unique to you and God ultimately created you to worship Him alone. 

We are on a journey - this journey will take us back home - back to God and His Heaven. 

Each moment is our only moment and this moment, my dearest diamond soul, is all you and i have - how will YOU use this moment? 

Do not fear or lose hope or despair - close your eyes, focus on your breathing and let the Light into your soul. God is with you...always and forever. It's time to create those positive changes in our life, live upon the deen and prepare for our best akhirah now. 

It's time to live a life on purpose with purpose. 

Take a deep breath in - release and now receive love, duas and light. 

Hope this helps on your journey now! :)

Allah (swt) says in the Qur'an; "And I did not create the jinn and mankind except to worship Me (alone)" [partial, 51:56]

How do you deal with your emotions? 

Are you 'releasing or recycling?'

So i just learnt about this concept. When we are dealing with any of our challenges we are either actively releasing our emotions or recycling them.

Releasing is when we have dealt with our emotions - actively - and time span is different for us all as we are all different - and then we get to a stage where we release our emotions and we begin to heal. This is when you start to feel ease, peace and calm within and you are actively getting on with your life - no more random tear sessions when hearing that song or seeing that picture.

Recycling is the stage where we keep repeating and repeating. We go through the whole 'Why' syndrome and is something i have also done and sometimes i have deliberately allowed myself to stay down this road longer than i should have and i have 'suffered' the consequences and yes suffering is optional - we have within us the ability to switch into the now and be OK only if we give ourselves permission.

Many people stay stuck in the recycling stage and so did i - especially in my teens and twenties.

I guess it's because it is comforting - as in we get used to our comfort zone and don't want to stretch ourselves but deep inside we know that if we do stretch ourselves we will learn and grow.

Releasing one's emotions doesn't happen overnight - especially when it involves the loss of a loved one. We naturally go through phases to understand it all and be OK.

Another thing is that many times we - yes females and males - were brought up to just 'deal with it and get over it' yet that same person would be eating their own words (we've all experienced that).

Healing begins as soon as we accept that God has something awesome planned for us and that He does not burden our souls more than we can handle and that He already knows we can handle it and He is looking at our response - whether we'll be grateful or ungrateful and how we will react. Healing begins when we understand our emotions and what triggers us and we realise that we have the power to change our state by changing our thoughts as we create our thoughts and we can direct them where we want. Healing begins when we let go and let God.

I hope this helps! :)

So i was in my front garden looking at my gorgeous and newly cut hedge when i noticed some dead leaves in there. They were brown and crumpled up and so i decided to clean it up and started picking them out one by one.

As i started to clean it up there seemed to be more buried in the hedge deeply - so i thought OK no worries, let me pick them out too.
I continued and as per usual now i was in a rush to get to the end of the hedge so my shoulders dropped and i was like 'urgh, hurry up already' - my gorgeous freshly cut hedge started to feel slightly over-bearing - but i still continued because it was somewhat therapeutic too - you know, how you do things and just let your mind relax to whatever and wonder about...

As i continued i noticed i missed some bits here and there so i went back to pick them out and then this kind of continued for about a few minutes. I kept missing bits or they were buried deep within.

It was at this exact moment i had one of those epiphany/ah-ha/breakthrough moments!

I just stopped and allowed it all to sink it for a few moments.

I rush to get things done to get to the end of the line - not so i am a winner - but just because i'm in a rush to get things done that i miss out some of life's finer details - those which can seriously benefit me in the long term.

.....

DEEP!

Have you ever had this happen to you too?

We think we have got rid of those negative thoughts, that bad relationship/friendship, disempowering habit and we are starting fresh but we sometimes miss the finer details or we think that once we have made this change then that is it, we won't need to put any more effort into it as magically everything will always be OK from this point.

I mean, how many times have we started to pray all of our prayers on time and we feel like a hero only to slowly slip back into that bad routine again?

Why? Because we were not consistent with it and we did not stay with it long enough to make sure we continue with it successfully.

We also may fall into this trap where we think we got rid of that bad habit or relationship yet fall into a similar type of habit or relationship again?

Why? Because we missed out on the finer details of really clearing up the clutter - the clutter which is within us and so the same patterns keep appearing.

I was just out enjoying the sun and admiring the freshly cut hedge when Allah wanted me to learn a real big lesson in life!

Subhan'Allah!

I need to learn to pace myself, i need to learn to be more consistent and i need to learn to work on those habits - if i get rid of something i need to search within and see where i need to work on and heal so i don't create the same habits in other areas and create lasting and positive change insha'Allah.

"Verily! In the creation of the heavens and the earth, and in the alternation of night and day, there are indeed signs for men of understanding." [Qur'an; 3:190]

Allah is always showing us signs and teaching us lessons through it - are we ready to learn and answer His call?

I hope this helped in your journey right now. 

Let me know in the comments below what resonated with you the most :)

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