We live in a society and culture where we want to work hard only so we accumulate all the goods of this world. We want, want and want! Its ok to have goods of this world - if done in moderation. We need a roof on top our heads and clothes on our body. We need that. So we work for it and its ok. I don't judge as that's not my purpose in life. I believe if God has blessed us with wealth then we can buy what we want so long as we give plenty in charity and help our loved ones. That's my personal belief and I stick by it. But there is a difference in being rich and blessed by God and just wasting that money on things we don't need at all. Western personal and spiritual development Guru's live by the daily mantra of; 'Give and You shall Receive'. Its from the Bible. But what's amazing is that our deen - Islam - also teaches us to give. It teaches us this principle in depth - subhan'Allah! Giving in charity is fundamental in Islam and there are two types - obligatory and voluntary. We know that Zakah is one of the Pillars of Islam - to give 2.5% of our wealth to the needy (in the Qur'an there are 8 categories of people who are eligible for Zakah). This is a form of obligatory charity. Sadaqa is voluntary charity and something we should do on a daily. It is a form of ibaadah - worship. It is sadaqa to smile at another. Each new day our limbs perform sadaqa (ie prayer, giving etc). Allah (swt) says; "You cannot attain to righteousness unless you spend (in charity) out of what you love." (3:92) And; Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) related that Allah's messenger (PBUH) said: "No money ever decreases because of charity; when a servant of Allah forgives, Allah increases him in dignity; and whenever a person humbles himself to Allah, Allah will elevate his status." Bukhari & Muslim. So why are we so stingy? Why can we not give? It almost seems as though we will become poor by giving! However that is not the case. Look at the beautiful teachings of our deen yet we are so miserly and stingy - traits and characteristics which have openly been condemned and prohibited by our beloved Prophet (pbuh). The western gurus give, give and give and yes they receive, receive and receive. God does not withhold from His creation. He is the One to give. We are not looking at aqeedah or different belief systems (of different religions) but we are looking at the mindset - the positive mindset and belief system about giving in charity. And most of them make a 6 figure income (how do I know? I study them!). Do you then stop to wonder why the Ummah is in such turmoil and pain? I'm asking you to for just a moment put aside the 'signs of the hour' (which, yes they are coming true one by one) and look at it from a different perspective. On the one hand we have oil rich billionaires building tall buildings almost out of space and then we have those who don't even know where the next meal will come from. Why? Why has the Ummah fallen so deep? Please don't cry for another great pious leader to appear to take us to victory because they were human beings! They trusted in Allah, believed in Him and did the right thing. We don't worship the creation but the Creator! You and I - my dear friends - have the capability of being great and leading the Ummah to victory! YES WE CAN! Its all about the mindset and its all about giving. And its all about believing and trusting Allah. Have we lost faith and trust? Naud'billah! Subhan'Allah! We are that busy that we can't even stop to help our own immediate family and we want to help the Ummah? Yes, dua is the weapon of a believer - but dua is a pre and post requisite to action. Action doesn't happen by itself as we know Allah said in the Qur'an that He will change our condition only when we first change it ourselves - when we take the first step to positive change. So why are we so afraid to lose our wealth? Why have we become so greedy? The wealth we have is not even ours! Its Allah's amanah - trust - given to us so we can spend on ourselves, our families and all of creation - spend in His way on His creation. Give and you shall receive! And if you don't have a lot of wealth to help others then give a smile at least. Give a helping hand. Give a kind word. Each of us can give if we become a little selfless. Ask Allah (swt) and He shall give - give thanks and He shall give more - life is a test and preparing for our eternal bliss - supplicate to Him - see things for what they are and don't make them bigger (don't make a mountain out of a mole hill) watch your thoughts, words, feelings and actions. Its all a cycle - don't fall into the negative trap that you can't do or give because you are fooling no one except yourself. Instead create a positive cycle. Just the way a smile is contagious so is this positive cycle. Each of us right NOW has the ability to 'Give' and then to 'Receive'. We have all the resources we need to begin right now insha'Allah. Giving is so good for the soul that you can instantly feel the peace within and without. And (remember) when your Lord proclaimed: "If you give thanks, I will give you more (of My Blessings) {14:7} Let's become true and worthy servants of Allah who give in His way and when we receive we give thanks. Tips and Action Points: 1. Scan your life - what can you do without? What is useless? Get rid of completely (if it is completely useless) or give in charity (if usable). 2. Give £1 or $1 or €1 or whatever your currency in your country to charity once every month (that's the least we can do, co'mon!) 3. Get together with friends and family and think of creative ways to help the Ummah and humanity and animals. 4. Don't remember or note down what you gave but always remember what you receive and then give thanks for it! 5. Share this message with your loved ones and make today's mantra; 'Give and You shall Receive!' Insha'Allah! :)
3 Comments
21/11/2012 08:36:57 pm
JazakAllah khair sister Nadia,....a positive message.
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adil shah
21/11/2012 09:17:48 pm
jazakallah.,
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